One Sunday in 2001 Dr. Peter Friedland received an unexpected call. Nelson Mandela was struggling to hear.
Could Peter, an ear, nose and throat specialist visit, him at home?
Friedland discovered Mandela was using antiquated hearing aids and struggling to maintain them. Soon he became a regular visitor to Mandela’s home where he experienced the statesman alone, in the frailty of old age. Mandela was full of stories, each one bearing a lesson.
South Africa was in the grip of a hijacking epidemic, and Friedland often found himself in the emergency room, operating as a head and neck trauma surgeon on folk who had been shot through the car window.
He also encountered violence on the street, it entered his home, and when yet another friend bled-out in his arms, he couldn’t take it anymore.
Telling his famous patient that he was leaving for Australia was insurmountably difficult, but Mandela surprised him.
He had made a monumental mistake in Australia some 20 years earlier, and he warned Friedland to learn from his ignorance.
In Perth, Friedland was told Australians think multiculturalism is inviting people to the party, however, it’s a long time before they ask you to dance. Here’s how he got onto the dance floor…
Professor Peter Friedland is a leading ear, nose and throat surgeon and holds the academic chair in this discipline in Western Australia. Most of his career was spent in South Africa, where he was clinical head of the department of ENT at the University of the Witwatersrand Donald Gordon Medical Centre.
Jill Margo
Jill Margo is a best-selling author specialising in biography, memoir, and health. Her books have been translated into Mandarin, Italian, and Hebrew and republished in India. She is also a highly decorated journalist with 40 years of experience in Australia’s leading newspapers.
Jill left South Africa at the age of 21 and has since spent most of her life in Sydney. She has three adult children, and as a 60th birthday gift to her younger brother, Peter, she offered to write this book with him.
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"I could not put down this beautifully written story of the relationship of a young doctor with his famous patient, Nelson Mandela. The book is written in such a way that it’s almost as if the doctor, Peter Friedland is sitting with you & telling you his story..."
"I just finished reading your book “quiet time with the president” and I really enjoyed it. It combines a very intriguing and impressive personal history, a great story on the recent history of South Africa, and a thoughtful reflection about the consequences of hearing loss and the stigma and ignorance associated with it…"
“Your book captures a glimpse of this crazy period in a way that draws each of us back to the sights, sounds and feelings we all had. The sheer terror, fear and uncertainty. Yet your book rises above that to bring out the magic of Madiba.”
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My memory of those last years is misted in sadness…. Madiba had so much time locked away from loved ones and then no time to repair his neglected relationships,’ Friedland observes. ‘While being swept up by the greater good was glorious and politically fulfilling, it was also emotionally impoverishing.’
Remember your enemy is not necessarily my enemy. You are entitled never to forget but you must forgive to move forward.
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Left to right: Linda Friedland, Mandela and Peter Friedland 2004
Mandela with Peter Friedland (right) and his twin brother Richard
Peter Friedland and his daughters with Mandela
Mandela with Peter Friedland and his sons
Sydney book launch with Dr Matilda House and Paul House
Mandela and Peter Friedland
Peter Friedland and Mandela
Peter Friedland and Mandela with Shamim Ebrahim (Audiologist)